Well, Tasha got me thinking, not just from her blog but also our talk. And I can't think of anyone where the mental attraction lead to sexual attraction. I've definatly had relationships where we should have worked but had no attraction(fireman), relationships where there is more spark than we know what to do with to (Mr. M {vanished to the land of T-ass} and kind of Mr. C {god knows what to call that}), and yes the pretty boys (Mr. B, oh and Dan). The guys more into me than I'm into them (Duck lips, and trout boy). But no one where we started as friend and grew into a relationship. Well, Matt but isn't wasn't a mental attraction... I think that more had to do with avaliblity and competition. Maybe Tim... but it was more his spirit and passion for teaching that grew the attraction... but his assholeness definatly countered it in the long run. So when Tasha asks if I think it's possable to have a "relationship" without physical attraction (She had examples where she felt it might be), I don't know. I think they both have to be there. I think you need to go, damn that man is HOT, CUTE, SEXY, (whatever) and be able to spend 80hr in a row and never get board, never feel like the silence is akward. What does that say about me? Does that mean I'm asking too much? Is that why I'm still single? Have I just watch too many Disney films and read too many trashy girl books? I wouldn't ever say I'm a romantic but... does wanting everything make me one?